You ever noticed that? — Why is it that narcissists choose to get upset when you buy them sometimes or give them a gift? It’s never just thank you. It’s either something along the lines of “It doesn’t fit me and I don’t really like the color.” Or they’re just straight up displeased. It makes…

The worst idea you’ll ever have. — There are people that stay with narcissists even after finding out they’re in the company of one. They do the research, then sympathy overcomes them. “They suffered a trauma and noone ever tried to help them, I won’t abandon them like everyone else.” “No, I will love them back to…

There’s not a partner that’ll be able to change them. — I get this a lot. What if the next partner is their perfect match? What if they can change the narcissist? And all that really is, is a fear of you actually being unworthy. Because if the next one does receive good treatment, that would mean that it was you…

Is not to be underestimated. — Will it ever end? How much more can I take? When you’re with a narcissist, you’ll find yourself wondering these things at some point. Narcissists don’t ever let off. The most underestimated trait of a narcissist, is their capacity to hurt you. Narcissists hurt you in ways, you never knew…

They all do it. — Before finding out about the narcissist’s infidelity, you’ll have gone through some stages with them. They literally all take the same route. Let me share the exact steps they take when they embark on their journey of self-gratification. THE BLUEPRINT: STEP 1. All of a sudden the narcissist is disgruntled, you don't get why…

Why do they do it? — It’s like they hate you, but then they want you to stay. Why, if the narcissist doesn’t want to lose you, do they keep pushing? Or why, if they don’t want you, do they keep pulling? It confuses many. It’s also the main reason why many harbor the hope for…

Will you ever feel it? — You just wanna get there right? To the point where you feel no love nor anger for the narcissist. Where nothing they say or do can affect you. People ask me how to get there. How much time does it take? Will it ever really happen? Getting to a place of indifference is a gradual process. And time is your…

After no-contact. — So you took the narcissist back. After they groveled, begged and pleaded. They cried and promised change. So much so, that they managed to convince you of an intense level of remorse they’re experiencing. You felt they really learned their lesson now and it would be safe to take them back now. Success guaranteed. Then…

And how to break it. — It seems one of the hardest things you’ll ever have to do in your life. Breaking the trauma bond. It completely puzzles many and leaves them in a state of despair. What is this? Why can’t I get over this? I’ve never had this much trouble accepting a break-up. It’s never hurt this much. …