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23 hours ago

Ask a Narcissist a Question

And you’ll reget the day. — Narcissists have a peculiar way of answering questions. It’ll drive you up the wall. They just can’t do it. They can’t be truthful. Because they’re liars. Prepare yourself for the following torment when you dare ask one anyway: PHASE 1: IGNORING. After a look of: “Wow, that’s weird”, the narcissist will first rattle on as if…

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Ask a Narcissist a Question
Ask a Narcissist a Question
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1 day ago

Gifts Upset Narcissists

You ever noticed that? — Why is it that narcissists choose to get upset when you buy them sometimes or give them a gift? It’s never just thank you. It’s either something along the lines of “It doesn’t fit me and I don’t really like the color.” Or they’re just straight up displeased. It makes…

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Gifts Upset Narcissists
Gifts Upset Narcissists
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4 days ago

Holding On To a Narcissist To Heal Them

The worst idea you’ll ever have. — There are people that stay with narcissists even after finding out they’re in the company of one. They do the research, then sympathy overcomes them. “They suffered a trauma and noone ever tried to help them, I won’t abandon them like everyone else.” “No, I will love them back to…

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Holding On To a Narcissist To Heal Them
Holding On To a Narcissist To Heal Them
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5 days ago

Narcissists Treat Everyone The Same

There’s not a partner that’ll be able to change them. — I get this a lot. What if the next partner is their perfect match? What if they can change the narcissist? And all that really is, is a fear of you actually being unworthy. Because if the next one does receive good treatment, that would mean that it was you…

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Narcissists Treat Everyone The Same
Narcissists Treat Everyone The Same
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6 days ago

The Pain That Narcissists Can Cause

Is not to be underestimated. — Will it ever end? How much more can I take? When you’re with a narcissist, you’ll find yourself wondering these things at some point. Narcissists don’t ever let off. The most underestimated trait of a narcissist, is their capacity to hurt you. Narcissists hurt you in ways, you never knew…

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The Pain That Narcissists Can Cause
The Pain That Narcissists Can Cause
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6 days ago

The Steps Narcissists Take To Hide Their Cheating

They all do it. — Before finding out about the narcissist’s infidelity, you’ll have gone through some stages with them. They literally all take the same route. Let me share the exact steps they take when they embark on their journey of self-gratification. THE BLUEPRINT: STEP 1. All of a sudden the narcissist is disgruntled, you don't get why…

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The Steps Narcissists Take To Hide Their Cheating
The Steps Narcissists Take To Hide Their Cheating
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Mar 12

The Narcissist’s Push And Pull

Why do they do it? — It’s like they hate you, but then they want you to stay. Why, if the narcissist doesn’t want to lose you, do they keep pushing? Or why, if they don’t want you, do they keep pulling? It confuses many. It’s also the main reason why many harbor the hope for…

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The Narcissist’s Push And Pull
The Narcissist’s Push And Pull
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Mar 11

Indifference Towards The Narcissist

Will you ever feel it? — You just wanna get there right? To the point where you feel no love nor anger for the narcissist. Where nothing they say or do can affect you. People ask me how to get there. How much time does it take? Will it ever really happen? Getting to a place of indifference is a gradual process. And time is your…

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Indifference Towards The Narcissist
Indifference Towards The Narcissist
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Mar 10

Taking a Narcissist Back

After no-contact. — So you took the narcissist back. After they groveled, begged and pleaded. They cried and promised change. So much so, that they managed to convince you of an intense level of remorse they’re experiencing. You felt they really learned their lesson now and it would be safe to take them back now. Success guaranteed. Then…

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Taking a Narcissist Back
Taking a Narcissist Back
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Mar 9

The Trauma Bond

And how to break it. — It seems one of the hardest things you’ll ever have to do in your life. Breaking the trauma bond. It completely puzzles many and leaves them in a state of despair. What is this? Why can’t I get over this? I’ve never had this much trouble accepting a break-up. It’s never hurt this much. …

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The Trauma Bond
The Trauma Bond
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Sophia Bell On Medium

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