The Signs

That indicate that you’re in a relationship with a narcissist.

Sophia Bell On Medium
2 min readJul 6, 2024
Photo by Chalo Garcia on Unsplash

Every narcissistic relationship is pretty much the same, apart from some minor details.

There are some key signs that will tell you that you’re in a relationship with a narcissist.

The signs:

  • You get treated like you don’t matter and threatened with abandonment regurlarly. Either with words, or by actions.
  • You can’t seem to please your partner.
  • You’re choosing to believe lies, although you know they’re lies.
  • You’re mentally exhausted, having to keep tabs on your partner at all times.
  • You don’t understand why you love your partner.
  • When your partner is, unreasonably, upset with you, they leave you and let you stew in anxiety and uncertainty and refuse to respond to any of your calls or messages.
  • You’re taking disrespect, you never thought you would take.
  • Your partner is hateful in ways you know noone that loves you could ever be.
  • You want to end the situation you’re in, but you don’t want to leave your partner.
  • When you bring up an issue you have with your partner, you’re always blamed for that issue.

If you can relate to the signs I just listed, you’re definitely in a relationship with a narcissist.

And you should know that the only solution there exists to that situation, is to leave the narcissist.

There literally exists no other solution.

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