The Narcissist is Trying to Make You Leave

Almost leaving you no choice.

Sophia Bell On Medium
2 min readJun 6


There’ll come a point in time, before the narcissist discards you, when they’ll put in all their effort to try and make you leave them.

Narcissists don’t like taking accountability and they really don’t want anyone to think that they’re the ones that ended the relationship.

They really only discard when you leave them no choice by enduring the worst abuse they can subject you too and refusing to leave them.

Narcissists start looking for a way out as soon as they’ve solidified the relationship they’re having behind your back.

The first thing they’ll do is drive you to the brink of insanity in an effort to make you leave.

They’ll try n pester you away.

You’ll be hearing a lot of:

“If you don't like it, you're free to leave.”


“Why are you even with me, if you hate me that much?”

They won’t have any explanations, lies or excuses left for you.

All they'll tell you is that they don't care what you think.

And escalate all arguments.

Then they'll show you that they don't care and leave you to stew in your misery.

You'll also notice that they get joy out of treating you the way they are.

It’s because they actually hate you at that point.

And that’s because they think they’ve found the one and because you’re not the one, they’re getting ready to discard you for them.

They will say and do irreversable things.

Because they’ll feel that they don’t need you anymore.

If you’re currently experiencing this, know that your discard is coming up.

I know you’re trying your absolute best to talk to the narcissist, because you’re hurt and you want your feelings to be validated.

Understand that the narcissist won’t do that.

Not now, not ever.

For the fact that they feel that you're playing victim when you deserve this treatment.