The Narcissist Changed Personalities

What could be the cause?

Sophia Bell On Medium
2 min readMay 31

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Everyone who’s been with a narcissist, knows about their personality changes.

One day, out of the blue, the narcissist starts liking different things.

They change their every preference.

They change into a different person you don’t even recognize anymore.

What the hell?

I’ll tell you.

A narcissist changes personalities when they’re idealizing someone else.

And I mean a complete personality change.

They will start using different speech, like a whole different accent, they’ll use words you’ve never heard them say and even change the tone of their voice.

Furthermore, you’ll notice them taking interest in things they were never interested in.

Like take up reading, or suddenly wanting to watch a TV show everytime it comes on.

This is why that happens:

When narcissists idealize, they start mirroring that person.

They will take on their convictions, interests, manner of speech and habits.

It’s the disorder, the narcissist doesn’t even know their entire personality changes.

Disordered as they are, they believe that they’re just a very wellrounded person.

And that’s how you know.

If you see them changing into a different person,

Know that that’s the person they’re cheating with or planning to cheat on you with.

This can work out in your favor too.

If that person’s main interest is paying all the bills.

All jokes aside, a narcissist changing personalities is the clearest indication you can get of them being unfaithful.

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