Narcissists Treat Everyone The Same

There’s not a partner that’ll be able to change them.

Sophia Bell On Medium
2 min readMar 15, 2023

I get this a lot.

What if the next partner is their perfect match?

What if they can change the narcissist?

And all that really is, is a fear of you actually being unworthy.

Because if the next one does receive good treatment, that would mean that it was you and not the narcissist.

Which is impossible.

Because if you were with a person that ticks all, or even most, of the narcissistic boxes, then you were with a narcissist.

Plain and simple.

And here’s why your fear of the next partner being able to tame the narcissist, is an irrational one.

Narcissists suffer from NPD.

It’s a disorder.

This disorder can be recognized in brain scans.

They're neurologically divergent.

The disorder is also incurable.

What does this disorder mean for a relationship?

That the narcissist is incapable of loving, or even caring for their partner.