Narcissists Repeat the Same Cycle

Over and over again.

Sophia Bell On Medium
2 min readJul 12, 2024
Photo by Nahima Aparicio on Unsplash

Why do they do that?

Just repeat the same cycle in every relationship.

And with every relationship.

It’s because they suffer from a disorder.

It's the disorder that steers the narcissist.

This disorder is basically troubleshooting 24/7.

To do that it has a couple of main settings:

  • Make the narcissist look for supply.
  • Make the narcissist obtain that supply.
  • Make the narcissist use that supply.
  • Make the narcissist look for supply.

That's it.

Now for the subsettings:

  • Convince the narcissist of their perfection.
  • Avoid accountability.
  • Prevent emotional attachment.
  • Place all blame on others.
  • Prevent self-reflection.

That's what NPD does.

Narcissists don't know any other way to behave.

They're in service of the disorder.

The disorder steers them to supply themselves, so that the disorder can maintain the narcissist’s false

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