Narcissists Don’t Change
They don’t feel they have to.
It’s you.
It’s you who’s making the narcissist miserable.
According to them, their behavior is brought on by you.
And because it's you, it's you who'll need to change.
Hence the narcissist’s many requests of you changing.
And accusations of you fucking up their life.
But you could change into Mother Theresa or Scarlett Johansson if you want, and it still won't make the narcissist happy.
And that’s because, in all actually, it’s not you.
It’s not you who’s making them miserable.
It's the narcissist and their need for supply.
You stop supplying them the supply you need, right after you fully commit to them.
And that's what makes them miserable being with you.
The narcissist doesn’t know that.
They thinks it’s you.
So the narcissist came up with the solution of cheating on every partner they ever had and will ever have, to make themselves happy again with new supply.
The narcissist doesn’t feel responsible for their own behavior.
That’s why they won’t ever feel the need to change.
And they never will.
