Narcissists Can’t Handle Shame

So how do they process their shameful actions?

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It’s a very simple trick they use.

Their behavior is not shameful.

And if it was, you are to blame.

They’re good people.

They don’t engage in shameful acts.

And even if they do, you gotta repeat after them that they don't.

If you're not willing to play your part in the narcissist’s version of life as it is, the narcissist will leave.

If you don't reconsider, the narcissist will stay away until you do.

If you have the nerve to reconsider but still bring it back up, the narcissist will leave again.

It's extremely simple.

You're a liar.

Narcissists don’t engage in shameful acts.

And if you can’t understand and accept that, the narcissist will leave until you can.