All the Times You Should’ve Left the Narcissist

Hindsight is a bitch.

Sophia Bell On Medium
2 min readJun 5, 2023

The one most imperative thing you learn from having been in a narcissistic relationship, is learning when it’s time to abandon a relationship.

Everyone comes out of it thinking they could’ve never known.

And that’s true.

But never again will you not know.

Never again will you give the benefit of the doubt when it’s totally undeserved.

Once the fog has lifted, a list of junctures will unfold.

Occurences thar you now know should’ve been grounds for leaving the narcissist.

I advise each and everyone of you to never lose sight of that list.

Here it is in black and white.

The happenings in chronological order:

  • When you have your first argument and you realize that they refuse to take any accountability, instead they’re trying to blame it on you.
  • When for the first time, they deny that they said or did something that you clearly heard/seen.
  • When they insult you for no reason, then tell you that it was just a joke and you’re oversensitive.
  • When suddenly they…