Or so they say. — A narcissist’s declaration of love should count as a deterrent. Because however much a narcissist thinks they have feelings for you, they can't maintain that illusion. It’ll start out like a fairytale romance, but you’ll end up in the pits of hell. Narcissists only think they have feelings for you…

The difference. — You don’t really trust anything anymore once you’ve been with a narcissist. Especially when it comes to getting to know potential partners. So what’s the difference? How do you distinguish between lovebombing and falling in love? Lovebombing is surreal. It's too good to be true. Everything alligns. You share the same hobbies, like…

After narcissistic abuse. — When you come out of a narcissistic relationship, you basically feel like crap. The narcissist’s been rejecting, neglecting and degrading you for almost the entire relationship. Which has a serious effect on you. You feel worthless, used and embarrassed. So how do you get back to feeling good about yourself…

Leaving the new partner for the old one. — It happens all the time. Narcissists abandoning their new found hate interest to return to their spouse/ long-term relationship. At the end of the day, narcissists choose the person who'll accomodate them the most. At first that will be the person who provides them with the most sexual gratification. Then…

Never you mind the relationship. — Why are there always issues arising in a narcissistic relationship, you might wonder. Why does there always have to be a problem? It’s because a narcissist enters a relationship dragging a dumpster full of problems with them, into the relationship. Here are some of those problems: The narcissist hates you. …

Since you get none from a narcissist. — You’ll never get closure from a narcissist. Which makes for a very difficult ending to process. Eventually you’ll have to give yourself your own closure in order to move on. Now, for some closure:

Will they treat their new partner right? — When a narcissist starts a new relationship, they start a new personality along with it. The narcissist is different. Every person makes a narcissist different. Narcissists mirror. Everyone that enters a relationship with a narcissist, will get their own behavior, convictions, beliefs and character mirrored to them. Although narcissists do…

It’s as if they never knew you. — Every so often the narcissist performs a purification ritual. They block, they change their number, delete their FB account and so on. The narcissist rids themselves of their previous life and starts a whole new one. New people, new number, new social media. All of a sudden the narcissist’s social…

Is it not love? — Everyone wants their life to be fulfilled. And for most that would entail a life that’s filled with love, care, companionship and purpose. For narcissists not so much. Narcissists fear to live a life without admiration. Narcissists want people to think highly of them. To keep their reality intact and…