It’s not the end. — The discard is just another test. For the simple reason that a narcissist will come back at some point. To see if you accept being trashed for someone else. If you take them back, they'll understand that you're ok with that. And proceed to start where they left off, at…

Is it possible? — Narcissists instill a feeling of guilt in you. They play on your empathy. That’s basically their game and that’s how they get through the entire relationship. Making you feel guilty for the things they do. But it doesn’t stop there. Even after the relationship ends you’ll find yourself not wanting…

Can you make them feel better? — There’ll come a time in a narcissistic relationship when the narcissist will seem disgruntled all the time. The narcissist will take offense to everything you say and do. You’ll try to fix it, but nothing you do will seem to help. And that’s because you’ve reached a point of no…

The facts. — There are some fundamental truths about narcissistic relationships that I can’t reiterate enough. If you’re familiar with my writings you’ll know that I repeat these points ad nauseam. I do so because I try to leave no room for doubt. Doubt is what kept people either in narcissistic relationships or…

Signs to look out for. — It gets confusing when you’re in a narcissistic relationship. Every person who’s ever been in a narcissistic relationship has at some point started doubting their observations. So are you with a narcissist or not? You can know that you're dealing with a narcissist, when: Not one argument with this person…

And your friends don’t understand it. — I get this a lot. “My friends tell me to get over the narcissist already, they don’t understand why I can’t.” That’s usually how friends will respond. Don't hold it against them. They don’t understand, they can’t. Just like you would’ve never understood, before you got romantically involved with a…

They all do the same things. — It’s easy to recognize a cheating narcissist. They all follow the same rulebook. Literally everyone who’s ever been subjected to a narcissist’s infidelity has lived through the same shit. This is what you’ll endure: No more explanations about anything. They’ll tell you to leave if you don’t like something. They’ll…

What does that mean? — Every narcissist will at some point have the gal to tell you you’ve changed. I get asked all the time what the narcissist means by that. Let me just first tell you that when a narcissist says anything, they never mean to compliment you. Now, here's what they mean: “You've…

Because they can’t grasp them. — There are some things that narcissists can’t grasp. Whether it be the usefullness of the concept or the concept itself, the narcissist doesn’t understand them. As a result of that you won’t ever get them from a narcissist, no matter how much patience you show. The top 3: TRUTH. Truth is one of the…